EP236: Women Hating On Women
Why do we judge certain women so harshly—especially the ones we don’t even know? In this episode of The Reinvention Room, we unpack the messy psychology behind why women criticize other women, from societal norms to the insecurities no one wants to admit. Expect real talk, a little pop culture, and plenty of "oh my gosh, that’s me" moments. I’m also sharing the small shifts we can all make to rewrite the story—for ourselves and for each other.
You know that irrational hatred some women trigger in you? Same. And in this episode, we’re talking about why. From celebrity drama to the sneaky ways societal conditioning shows up in our everyday lives, I’m taking you through the deeper reasons women criticize other women—and how we can stop.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode
[00:00] Why this episode almost didn’t happen (hello, self-doubt!).
[03:30] Big names, big triggers: Why certain women (like Meghan Markle or J.Lo) bring out big feelings.
[08:45] Media double standards: Why women have to be either perfectly poised or total messes.
[15:00] The root of the hate: How anxiety, inadequacy, and internalized sexism play into it all.
[22:00] My personal struggles with judgment, societal expectations, and feeling like I always had to prove myself.
[32:40] The fix: How to audit your own biases, shift the narrative, and create more supportive spaces.
[40:00] Final thoughts: Let’s stop judging ourselves and each other—it’s time to rewrite the story.
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