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Ep. 283 - Channel your crazy energy better with Josh Pais

January 29, 20262 min read
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Ever wish you could flip your anxiety, stress, or even full-on rage into superpowers? That’s exactly what we’re unpacking in this episode of Culture Changers with the wildly insightful Josh Pais, actor, New York Times bestselling author ofLose Your Mind: The Path to Creative Invincibility, and the guy who literally played Raphael in the original Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles!

I get vulnerable about what it feels like to live with a fried nervous system and nagging self-doubt, and Josh takes us on a journey to transform those so-called bad emotions into fuel for creativity, confidence, and genuine presence. We talk about why the self-help industry’s obsession with feeling better often keeps us stuck (spoiler: your mind can be a real asshole), and how welcoming every messy feeling, no matter how uncomfortable, can be your gateway to creative invincibility.

Josh shares radical, body-centered strategies you can use on the spot, including his four access points to shift from mental drama to full-body aliveness. If you’re over toxic positivity, exhausted by faking it, or just want to stop fighting yourself, this one’s for you. We get vulnerable, irreverent, and, dare I say, pretty damn actionable.

In this episode, we get into:

  • Embracing all emotions without judgment

  • Transforming anxiety and stress into creative fuel

  • The harm of suppressing feelings

  • The self-help industry's narrative

  • The myth of good and bad emotions

  • Authenticity and removing the emotional mask

  • Playfulness and creativity as healing tools

Notable Quotables:

  • “As the breath decreases, the shit talk increases.”(17:29)

  • “Anxiety is just an energetic pattern.”(15:16)

  • “Ride it, don’t hide it.”(30:41)

  • “Everybody’s mind is mean.”(15:38)

  • “When there’s truth, you can’t look away.”(39:24)

Timestamps:

  • 0:00 Channeling emotional energy

  • 4:00 Processing heavy moments in real time

  • 11:00 Why emotions aren’t good or bad

  • 15:00 Anxiety as energy

  • 19:00 Feeling emotions in the body

  • 24:00 Turning nervousness into fuel

  • 30:00 Why suppression backfires

  • 38:00 Truth, trust, and presence

  • 45:00 Playfulness and creativity

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Allison Hare is the former sales executive turned lifestyle entrepreneur. She’s the host of the award-winning, top 1.5% globally ranked podcast, Late Learner and a personal coach for professional mothers and a keynote speaker.

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